Abstract: This study aims to explain relationship of women and children in society. In the household, women are obliged to have a child. As the wife of defenseless women attempt getting the child. Actions taken is conceived, women ask for help to other people in order to bear a child and received a surrogate child. The child is very important presence in the household. However in existence is always preserved and protected by women. In addition to meaningful social economically, the presence of children also are religious. Children are mercies from God. It takes effort and patience to have children.